Isn’t it crazy that I considered not uploading this picture as I thought it was unflattering?  It really got me thinking, is this the kind of example I want to set for my daughter – being so self critical? Hell no!

I am a size 12 which latest research shows is the Australian AVERAGE – so why do I sometimes feel ashamed of my body? I have an hourglass figure and a bigger bust than most so naturally look a little top heavy but does all that justification really matter? No. Why do we as women find it so hard to be comfortable in our skin? Why are men exempt from this kind of judgement and scrutiny? I am not saying they deserve it, but why are we the only gender always under the spotlight.

We are so polluted as females with images of what we ought to look like – yet are these images a true representation of the mass population? I don’t think so. First being super skinny was all the craze and now it seems the bulkier big booty look is taking the lead. And now consequently, those on the lighter end of the scale are being bullied too – madness!

Why do we scrutinise ourselves or worse still why do we criticise each other as women when we are supposed to be in the same tribe?

Every single one of us is beautiful in our own way, whether it be a size 6 or a size 16, Kardashian booty or not. And believe it or not, each one of us is an inspiration to someone! There is someone out there looking up to us just the same way we are looking up to someone else.

Its time to stop self sabotaging and loving ourselves for exactly who we are and where we are right now! Because self love is the first step to progression and global acceptance.

Sure, if you want to change something about your lifestyle for health benefits, that’s totally fine – but do it for you and no-one else. By constantly comparing ourselves to others, we are robbing ourselves of true happiness. Forget who the world tells you to be and be who you are!

So, if someone hasn’t told you today or more importantly if you haven’t told yourself, you are beautiful! Don’t forget it.

Let’s top the negative self talk and instead teach and empower our daughters to love themselves just the way they are – because that’s really what we want for the future generation isn’t it?

What things to do you truly love about yourself? 

 

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  1. Absolutely love this blog post Hun! You said it so well, I laugh so often because when I was overweight (for myself) people would tell me to lose weight now I’m at my healthy weight and look physically skinny so many people say oh yes but you aren’t going to lose anymore right? I can’t win ha ha and I know I shouldn’t care but in present day you just think god lay off I am what I am and it shouldn’t affect anyone else ♥️♥️♥️

    • simplysolonge Reply

      Thank you so much Sarah – so glad you enjoyed it! It’s always the way isn’t it!!! I get the same thing, soon as I start losing weight people are like – ” don’t go overboard”. I guess that’s why it’s so important to make ourselves happy and no one else, because their expectations will always change x

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